{"id":2558,"date":"2020-04-09T06:51:36","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T06:51:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.momoanaokulu.com\/?p=2558"},"modified":"2026-04-03T11:14:42","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T08:14:42","slug":"sikilmanin-degeri-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/?p=2558","title":{"rendered":"S\u0131k\u0131lman\u0131n De\u011feri-2"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finde ne demelisiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yazan: Richard Rende, Ph.D<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7\u00f6zmesi gereken bir problem -sizin de\u011fil- e\u011fer izin verirseniz.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ebeveynlerin son bir y\u0131ld\u0131r s\u0131k\u00e7a sorduklar\u0131 soru; \u00e7ocu\u011fum \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finde ne demeliyim.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok fazla \u015fey de\u011fil. Mesele, bu problemin \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00e7\u00f6zmesi gereken bir problem olmas\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Olay \u015fudur, bir ebeveyn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nd\u0131r. \u2018Nas\u0131l s\u0131k\u0131labilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Onlar\u0131 me\u015fgul edecek o kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey var. Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc faaliyet, okulla ilgili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc teknolojik alet. Bizim b\u00fcy\u00fcrken sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ok daha fazlas\u0131na sahip olmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen.. biz s\u0131k\u0131lmazd\u0131k.\u2019<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte ger\u00e7ek tam burada gizli.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar, zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funu y\u00f6netildikleri ve onlar i\u00e7in planlanan bir d\u00fcnyada ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. Te\u015fvikleri planl\u0131, motivasyonlar\u0131 ise d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck olma e\u011filimindedir. Bir \u00e7o\u00e7u\u011fa bo\u015f zaman d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir \u015fey sunulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bir s\u00fcre sonra t\u00fcm d\u0131\u015f uyar\u0131c\u0131lar parlakl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yitirmeye ba\u015flarlar.<\/p>\n

Tekrar soruya d\u00f6nelim. Anne-babalar genellikle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bu soru ile cevap veriyorlar;<\/p>\n

\u201cNas\u0131l s\u0131k\u0131labilirsin?\u201d<\/p>\n

Sinirlenirler ve ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olarak can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6nerilerde bulunurlar.<\/p>\n

\u201cBuna ne dersin? Peki ya bu?\u201d<\/p>\n

Bu, sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmeyecek. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun asl\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m derken s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u201cdolu, ba\u011fl\u0131 hissetmiyorum\u201d dur. Ve bunun nedeni, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sahip olduklar\u0131 bo\u015f zaman ile ne yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in art\u0131k yeterince bo\u015f zamanlar\u0131 olmamas\u0131. Planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n onlara verdi\u011fi mesaj \u201cdown time\u201d yani kendileri ile ilgili tam olarak ne yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilmedikleri zaman\u0131n, k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey olmas\u0131 fikridir. Bo\u015fa harcanan, daha iyi bir \u015feylerin \u00fcretilmesi i\u00e7in kullan\u0131labilecek olan bir zamand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Buna nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131 geliriz? \u00d6ncelikle can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 problemine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulman\u0131n sizin alan\u0131n\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilin. S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Bu iyi bir \u015fey, beynimin bir \u015feye \u00f6zlem duydu\u011funa dair bir i\u00e7 kay\u0131t ve beni tatmin eden bir \u015fey bulana kadar \u00e7amurda kalmal\u0131y\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Belki de bir dahaki sefere s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla sohbet edebilirsiniz. Bir ka\u00e7 denemeden sonra \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dediklerinde, tatl\u0131 bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme ile \u201cTamam, anlad\u0131m. Bo\u015f zaman\u0131n\u0131n keyfini \u00e7\u0131kar ve sana s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 gelmeyen bir \u015feyler bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u201d diyerek konu\u015fmay\u0131 burada bitirebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Elbette \u00e7ocuklara bo\u015f kalabilecekleri anlar\u0131 daha \u00e7ok yarat\u0131rsak daha iyi sonu\u00e7lar al\u0131r\u0131z. Bu bo\u015f zamanlara de\u011fer verdi\u011fimizi onlara hissettirip, bu anlar\u0131 zevk alacaklar\u0131 herhangi bir \u015fekilde kullanabilmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliriz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biraz canland\u0131r\u0131n. \u0130\u00e7inizdeki ilham\u0131 bulun ya da sizi mutlu eden bir \u015feyi.<\/p>\n

Bu deneyimlerin bazen tutkular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fvik etti\u011fi do\u011frudur. Yenilik\u00e7i insanlar \u201cs\u0131k\u0131lma\u201d anlar\u0131n\u0131 taze bir \u015fey yaratabilmek i\u00e7in bir f\u0131rsat olarak de\u011ferlendirirler.<\/p>\n

Bazen hi\u00e7bir sonuca var\u0131lmasa bile \u201chi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmamak\u201d \u201cbir \u015fey yapmaktan\u201d daha \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

Brad Paisley\u2019nin \u201cTime Well Wasted\u201d<\/em>\u015fark\u0131s\u0131na g\u00fczel tavsiyeler i\u00e7in bir bak\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u00c7eviren: Nisan Eskicio\u011flu\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

MOMO Anaokulu E\u011fitmeni<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finde ne demelisiniz? Yazan: Richard Rende, Ph.D \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7\u00f6zmesi gereken bir problem -sizin de\u011fil- e\u011fer izin verirseniz. Ebeveynlerin son bir y\u0131ld\u0131r s\u0131k\u00e7a sorduklar\u0131 soru; \u00e7ocu\u011fum \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finde ne demeliyim. \u00c7ok fazla \u015fey de\u011fil. Mesele, bu problemin \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00e7\u00f6zmesi gereken bir problem olmas\u0131. \u00a0Olay \u015fudur, bir ebeveyn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131na \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nd\u0131r. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[55,52,53],"tags":[178,174,173,172,175,143,176,171,147,96],"class_list":["post-2558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-duygular","category-ebeveyn-rehberi","category-ev-uygulamalari","tag-2-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-3-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-4-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-5-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-6-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-az-uyaran","tag-evde-etkinlik","tag-evde-gunluk-ritim","tag-sade-cocukluk","tag-sadelik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2558"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2558\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3361,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2558\/revisions\/3361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}