Her ebeveynin \u00e7ekindi\u011fi o iki kelimeyi duydu\u011funuzda nas\u0131l hissedersiniz?<\/p>\n
\u201cCan\u0131m s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n
Belki bug\u00fcn\u00fcn yo\u011fun ebeveynlerinin ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 su\u00e7luluk duygusu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ya da\u00a0 genel olarak bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da en az efor harcatacak olan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bu oldu\u011fundan, \u00e7o\u011fumuz bu korkun\u00e7 c\u00fcmleye bir cevap bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z; uzun, cazip se\u00e7enekler listesi.<\/p>\n
En iyi durumda (ve bizi en \u00e7ok rahatlatan) \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bu cazip se\u00e7eneklerinizden birine tutunur.<\/p>\n
En k\u00f6t\u00fc durumda, biraz nefes almak i\u00e7in ona fazladan bir 30 dakikal\u0131k \u201cekran\u201d s\u00fcresi verirsiniz.<\/p>\n
Ancak bir dahaki sefer \u00e7ocu\u011funuz \u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011finde ona sadece g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyip \u201cs\u0131k\u0131lmay\u0131 seviyorum\u201d demeyi deneseniz nas\u0131l olur?<\/p>\n
Bu sizi \u00e7ok \u00f6zg\u00fcr k\u0131lacak olman\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in de ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok iyidir.<\/p>\n
Neden? \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n kendilerini duyacak kadar sessiz olabilmesi i\u00e7in kendi can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7inde durabilmeleri gerekir. Sadece etraf\u0131m\u0131zda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda i\u00e7imizde bir \u015fey canlanabilir.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ger\u00e7e\u011fi olan s\u00fcrekli uyar\u0131c\u0131lar, bir\u00e7ok \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in bu durgunluk alan\u0131na ula\u015fmalar\u0131na engeldir. Ekranlar her yerdeler ve zihinlerin uyu\u015fmas\u0131na sebep oluyorlar.<\/p>\n
Yo\u011fun plan ve programlar yap\u0131yor ve daha da k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yeti\u015fmeleri gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz i\u00e7in, onlar\u0131 bir \u00e7ok planlaman\u0131n i\u00e7ine de dahil ediyoruz. \u201cMe\u015fgul olmak\u201d moda oldu \u2013 sanki hepimiz \u201cde\u011ferli olmak i\u00e7in me\u015fgul olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u201d diyen\u00a0bir anla\u015fma yapm\u0131\u015f gibiyiz.<\/p>\n
Kocam gen\u00e7ken, dola\u015fmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok geni\u015f alanlar\u0131 olan k\u0131rsal bir b\u00f6lgede ya\u015f\u0131yormu\u015f. Bize, zaman bulabildi\u011fi her an o d\u00f6nemlerde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kaz\u0131lar, in\u015fa etti\u011fi kaleler, g\u00f6md\u00fc\u011f\u00fc hazineler ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck icatlar\u0131 ile ilgili hikayeler anlat\u0131r. Onu hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda, daha da \u00f6nemlisi \u201conun\u201d d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kaybolmas\u0131n\u0131 kafamda canland\u0131r\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n
Kocam ile ilgili bunlar\u0131 bildi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u015fu anda bir makine m\u00fchendisi olmas\u0131 \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k yarat\u0131yor mu? Hala in\u015fa ediyor, icatlar yap\u0131yor. Bu o, onun \u00f6z\u00fc. \u00c7ocuklu\u011funun can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n, onun sadece \u201colmas\u0131\u201d i\u00e7in yarat\u0131lan alan\u0131n, bug\u00fcnlere etkisi b\u00fcy\u00fck ve belirleyici.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar kim olduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201chi\u00e7lik\u201d alan\u0131nda durmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Ve bir o kadar da \u00f6nemli olan, \u00e7ocuklar kendi i\u00e7 hareketlerini uyand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Pek \u00e7ok anne baba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n neden \u201cmotivasyon eksikli\u011fi\u201d ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ya da \u201cumursamaz\u201d olduklar\u0131n\u0131n bulmacas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00e7aresizlik i\u00e7inde bana gelmi\u015flerdir. \u00dcz\u00fcc\u00fc ger\u00e7ek, bir \u00e7ok durumda bu durumun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklara b\u0131rak\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 \u00c7ocu\u011fun benlik duygusu ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun varl\u0131k hissinin uyanmas\u0131na izin verilmemi\u015ftir. Yeterince sessiz ve durgun alana izin verilmemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden, bir dahaki sefer o kelimeyi duydu\u011funuzda \u2013\u201cs\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131m\u201d- \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir can simidi olun ve hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmay\u0131n.\u00a0 Bilgili ve s\u0131cakl\u0131k dolu bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme ile ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sallay\u0131p \u201cs\u0131k\u0131lmay\u0131 seviyorum\u201d diyerek o bo\u015flu\u011fu dolduracak hi\u00e7bir olanak sunmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Ve izleyin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun zihninin sessizle\u015fmesini izleyin. \u0130\u00e7sel benlik duygular\u0131n\u0131n uyanmas\u0131n\u0131 izleyin. Var olma duygular\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcyerek yarat\u0131ma, yapmaya ve ele ge\u00e7irmeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesini izleyin. Ve sonra da onlar\u0131n kendilerinden emin, yetenekli, motive gen\u00e7 insanlar olmalar\u0131n\u0131 izleyin.<\/p>\n
Can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve tutkunun iksiridir.<\/p>\n
Can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131, hevesli, hedefine \u00f6nem veren biri olmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcren yoldur.<\/p>\n
Can s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 seviyorum.<\/p>\n
\u00c7eviren: Nisan Eskicio\u011flu\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n MOMO Anaokulu E\u011fitmeni<\/em><\/p>\n \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Her ebeveynin \u00e7ekindi\u011fi o iki kelimeyi duydu\u011funuzda nas\u0131l hissedersiniz? \u201cCan\u0131m s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131.\u201d Belki bug\u00fcn\u00fcn yo\u011fun ebeveynlerinin ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 su\u00e7luluk duygusu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ya da\u00a0 genel olarak bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da en az efor harcatacak olan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bu oldu\u011fundan, \u00e7o\u011fumuz bu korkun\u00e7 c\u00fcmleye bir cevap bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z; uzun, cazip se\u00e7enekler listesi. En iyi durumda (ve bizi en \u00e7ok rahatlatan) \u00e7ocu\u011funuz bu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[55,52,53],"tags":[178,174,173,172,175,143,176,171,147,96],"class_list":["post-2551","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-duygular","category-ebeveyn-rehberi","category-ev-uygulamalari","tag-2-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-3-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-4-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-5-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-6-yas-ev-etkinlikleri","tag-az-uyaran","tag-evde-etkinlik","tag-evde-gunluk-ritim","tag-sade-cocukluk","tag-sadelik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2551","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2551"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2551\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3358,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2551\/revisions\/3358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2551"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2551"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordpress.codelama.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2551"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}